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10 daily questions to help you become the best version of your life
In fact, we still ask ourselves every day with many different questions, but only when consciously and actively practicing self-reflection properly every day can this really work. Before going through 10 personal development questions, let's find out how the legendary Steve Jobs practiced self-inquiry.
1. WHAT ARE YOU DOING IN THE LAST YEAR
This is a question that helps you determine where you are, whether you yourself have improved in the past year or are still "stagnant" on the path to pursuing your goals.
When you look back on what you've been through, you can tell the difference between the past and the present. This allows you to learn from past mistakes and focus on what is right and positive in the present and future.
2. HOW DO YOU WANT TO BE ONE?
The best question you should ask yourself is who you want to be. This is the question that determines the remaining 16-18 hours of the day, how you will live and how happy you will be. But most people often misunderstand this question and focus only on what they want to get.
Knowing what you want to achieve is a good thing, but if you don't transform yourself to become the "right" version of yourself, you will have a hard time getting what you're aiming for.
To be successful, you need to know who you want to be and strive to be the best version of that role model. For example, if you want to become a top tennis player, the only way is to practice and equip yourself with the skills that a great tennis player should have.
Everything you do will lead you to what you want. This is why you need to know who you want to be instead of simply what you want.
3. ARE YOU REALLY ENJOYING YOUR LIFE TIME?
At the moment, do you like the way you spend your day? If the answer is yes, it means you are doing what you love. But if the answer is no, maybe you need to rethink what you're doing every day.
It can be tough trying to do things day in and day out that you don't love. Instead, you should spend time doing things that you are truly passionate about.
When you love what you do, only then can you excel at it. Without passion and love for what you do, you will never be the best version of yourself.
4. Who do you spend the most time with?
The answer to this question is really important, because usually you will become the person you spend the most time with. So if you're spending most of your time with positive people or people you aspire to be, keep it up.
However, if you're spending most of your time with negative, complaining people, and your conversation is mostly about bad-mouthing others, maybe you should consider this.
Negative energy is actually very contagious and can turn you into a negative person.
5. WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THE MOST?
Take a moment and think about this question right now. What do you think about the most? Your own career? Are you looking for a new job? Or what are your goals and dreams?
Most people are very passive because they are not aware of their thoughts. People usually only react when something happens. Therefore, to take better control of your life, you should learn to observe the flow of your mind and redirect them towards the future. Starting to plan and constantly reviewing your goals will help you regain focus.
6. WHAT IS YOUR BIGGEST FEAR?
Do you know what is your biggest fear or what is standing in your way? For example: If you want to quit your current job to start an online business but your biggest obstacle is not knowing where to start, you can read and learn from people who already have experience in this field.
Identifying barriers or fears is key. When you know what's holding you back, you can find solutions to that barrier.
Therefore, find out the fear deep inside you. What is stopping you from achieving your goals?
7. HOW TO CHALLENGE YOURSELF AND BECOME THE BEST VERSION OF MYSELF?
When was the last time you challenged yourself to do something “crazy”? Did you know that the only way to develop yourself is to step out of your comfort zone?
If you continue to do what you always do, the results you get will not change. So in order to grow and improve yourself, you need to do something different. You can't always stay in your comfort zone and expect things to change.
*Are you afraid to sit in front of the camera? Challenge yourself by uploading videos on YouTube.
*Want to improve endurance? Challenge yourself to run a marathon.
*Want more and more people to visit your blog? Challenge yourself to write and publish every day.
Only when you dare to challenge yourself to step out of your comfort zone can you change and become the best version of yourself.
8. WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO EXPERIENCE TO SUCCESS?
How is success for you defined? Do you know what you need to go through to be successful? Most people don't define what "success" they want is. So it's hard to imagine how they're going to get there.
You must clearly define what you want to achieve, what is your definition of success, and then find a way to get there within the time limit you set. If you don't know your definition of success, someone else will hire you to work for their success.
9. WHAT ARE THE 3 FIRST THINGS YOU MUST DO IN THE NEXT 6 MONTHS?
Determining 3 prerequisite goals you must do in the next 6 months helps you know what you need to prioritize your time for in a short time.
Often, people don't know what they need to do to achieve their goals. Because they don't know what to do first, what to do later, people easily waste too much time on social networks or games. In the end, they feel inferior in their careers.
Never let this happen to you. Write down 3 prerequisites that you must do in the next 6 months today to really focus on that goal and avoid wasting your time on useless things.
10. IF YOU KEEP UP THE OLD WORKS, CAN YOU ACHIEVE YOUR GOAL IN THE NEXT 5 YEARS?
This final question will serve as an assessment, helping you to see if the things you used to do in the past are really helping you achieve your goals and dreams. And if the results are not what you want, you may need to change or adjust your working method.
So, how to check if you have worked effectively? The best way to evaluate this is to learn from those with prior experience.
Just like baking a cake. If you follow the recipe, there's no guarantee you'll succeed, but your chances of getting a delicious batch from proven steps are much higher.
Therefore, learn from the experienced people around you, learn both their failures and successes to draw lessons for yourself. If unfortunately, you discover that what you are doing is not helping you achieve the goals you want, do not be discouraged, change your plan and do it again later.
Asking yourself questions is an important key to your growth and self-improvement. Ask yourself these 10 questions to inspire personal growth and change.
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